Monday, November 10, 2014

Hmong Post-Partum

The Hmong post-partum practice often means confinement for 30 days with a strict diet and strict taboos. Hmong woman will not eat hospital food as traditionally they should eat hot rice with boiled chicken in a broth of special herbs. Absolutely no fruits, vegetables or cold drinks allowed. The Hmong (no matter age or location) still observe this practice as it is believed to avoid ill health and misfortune in the future. It is also taboo for the Mother and child to step inside the house of anyone other than her house or her husband's family's house. If she does, she may disrupt the home's spirit guard and bring misfortune to that person or family.

Believe me, this post-partum was hard because of the fact that my recovery took so long and that I had two babies under the age of two to take care of. So to top it off with the confinement was a slap to the face! After a week of being on the diet, I cheated and ate other foods besides the boiled chicken. Of course, I felt bad but I did it anyway.

Whole chicken boiled with special herbs from my Mother and Mother in-law.

The broth from the chicken has to be served separate from the chicken. It is also a taboo to allow rice to drop into the liquid of the broth because it is believed to create red bumps on your baby's body.

Only fresh hot rice with fresh chicken is allowed. If there are leftovers, the Mother can not eat it because it is believed it will cause her ill health in the future.

Monday, November 3, 2014

Welcome Baby Ruby


Sorry I'm very late on this post but, as you can imagine, I've been very busy with a newborn and a 16 month old. Ruby came into this world on October 20th. She was a very healthy baby and not as quiet as her brother. Anakin got to meet his baby sister a few hours later and at first he really couldn't figure it out but, once he saw this baby he immediately kissed her and hugged her. He also had his first sleep over at his auntie's house without Mommy and Daddy. I don't know if it was worse for him or for us. I missed him terribly and kept him at the hospital with us even though I knew it was a bad decision since we would not be sleeping well but, we did it anyway (we can't cut the cord yet!). 

I'd have to say, this labor did go smoother than Anakin's but the recovery was a lot harder. My back and tailbone hurt so much from pushing her out, I could not walk at all. It did not help either that my 16 month old still required a lot of attention from me and that my husband only had a week off from work. Ai yah!!! What was I to do? Well, I did what I always do when I need help... I called my Mom!



My Mother was so sweet. She offered to take a week off work to come help me. She was such a great help even though Anakin was being a stinker and I wanted her to stay longer but, she had to go back. I cried and cried the day she left. I really did feel like my world was crumbling down. Postpartum hit me hard with this pregnancy because I had it really good with my first one. With Anakin, my husband took a month off and my recovery was quick. I think having someone there to help you is the tipping point in determining your overall wellness. Either way, I'm plugging ahead with little sleep and little time on my hands now. I have a one month old and a 17 month old now to take care of. I just hope I can divide myself while multiplying myself. Life of a Mother... they say you won't know until you walk two moons in their shoes. 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Baby Shower for a Baby Girl



This past weekend was Labor Day weekend as well as my baby shower for baby girl. It was the perfect weather too. My house was the house to be at on the block. I had kids running around the house and people stopping by to say hi (since it was the Hmong tournament too). I could not have asked for a better ending to a special Summer than this. I am so blessed and lucky to have so many sisters and sister in-laws who threw this shower for me. There are no words to express how much love I felt that day and how much love I know Ruby will have surrounding her.

I can't believe it's already September! Just another month until baby girl makes her entrance into this world. I'm kinda nervous now that I know what to expect during labor. I'm just praying it's a smooth labor with no big interruptions. She has been so active so I know she'll have a lot of sass in her. I can not wait to hold her and for Anakin to meet his little sister.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Babygirl Fall Picks



1. Playsuit by MileyandMoss
2. Shirred Floral top by babyGap
3. Bow moccasins by Hubble+Duke
4. Ballerina cloth doll by Piggyhatespanda


Babygirl will be here in October and the husband and I can't agree on a name yet... but, I'm sticking with Ruby!

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

What to expect: in The Great Sand Dunes National Park



We also traveled south of RMNP to the Great Sand Dunes National Park on our road trip. Unfortunately, we were met with really bad weather and so we didn't get to enjoy the Dunes like we had hoped for. Plus, we only planned for a 1 day stay there. We will have to plan at least 3 days there for our next visit here. 

What to expect in the Great Sand Dunes National Park:

1. Weather change. Like RMNP, the Great Sand Dunes area was really windy! Prepare for very windy situations. 

2. Campground information: the nearest campground is Pinyon Campground, just a short drive past the Sand Dunes general parking area. Unlike RMNP, the campground is not ministered by anyone. That means, if you made an advanced reservation like we did, all you have to do is drive through loop B (the reservable loop) and find your reserved site. There should already be a post with your name and how many nights you reserved the site for on the post. If you are planning on doing a first-come-first-serve stay, then you'll have to stay in loop A and here's the thing ... you will have to drive around loop A and find a site that no one has taken yet. Set up your things, and then go back to the registration booth at the entrance of the campground and fill out an envelope with a check/credit card info and drop it in the box they provide at the booth. If you've already made advanced reservations and is staying in loop B, there is no need for you to visit this registration booth. 

Now, I had made early reservations for this campground in February too and when I did, all the sites that were suggested online were already gone. Actually, most of the reservable sites were already gone. Fortunately, I was able to book 3 sites that were close by one another and near the restroom (again, very helpful if you have children). Although these sites didn't quite have amazing views as the sites I had wanted, I'm thankful we got these instead because it was so windy when we went that as I was driving by the sites I had originally wanted (with great views of the Dunes), I saw that their tents almost flew away. Not good for them. Lucky for us, we had a tree and at least some protection from the wind from that. The sites we stayed at were sites 84, 50, and 49. 

You can watch this video my husband took of our sites in proximity to the Dunes.

3. Medano Creek was the highlight of why we wanted to do this roadtrip in the first place. We had seen videos on YouTube and saw how much fun the kids were having in this desert place with this cool creek. Unfortunately when we went, the creek was already pretty low (the ranger told us the creek had hit its peak 10 days earlier) and it was too windy for the kids to enjoy it. The creek water was pretty warm though so I could imagine if you went on the perfect day, how enjoyable it'd be! Here is a video of the second day we were at the Dunes (the morning we left).

4. No gas or groceries for miles! Serious. The closest store that had some groceries (hot dogs, beer) and a gas pump (that we weren't even sure that worked) was the Great Sand Dunes Oasis. Which, if you're google mapping it, took us the other direction and we got lost finding it. This store/restaurant is actually towards the Great Sand Dunes, not the other direction like our gps was telling us. So, if you're driving, make sure you get gas and food before you get there.


I think the GSNP is a hit or miss. Either way, you should plan to stay for a few nights at least to allow yourself the time to explore this region and pray that you'll get 1 good day out of your stay to enjoy the Dunes in all it's glory!